What a great service!
That may sound too glib, because sending one's loved one on Home ahead of us is always hard.
But I hope that my homegoing will express joy and expectation the way this one did.
They showed a clip of Kristy when she first learned she had brain cancer, thanking the church for their gestures of love, and saying she just wanted to be in the center of God's will. That she believed in healing and always did, but that there are all kinds of healing.
Milton gave a beautiful euology. He held up a fat notebook of Kristy's writings and laughing, said "We'll start on page one."
Members of the family sang beautiful solos. Larry Ford, I think, sang, "I Bowed on my Knees and Cried 'Holy'" and the service ended with "How Great is our God."
If you would like to enjoy this service, click here.
And if you would like to understand more about how anyone could have peace and joy in spite of just losing a loved one, then scroll down and push the red button marked, "Ready?"
Thursday, July 24, 2008
What a great service!
Tuesday, July 22, 2008
Wow, going through old files in my discarded computer, I just came across this email from Kristy to the loop, posted on May (I forget already) 2006. I'm sure she wouldn't mind a bit if I posted it here, with her good thoughts.
Greetings from Kristy Dykes in sunny Florida!
Somebody asked what to do when you've faced a trauma and can't seem to write, or you're feeling directionless, etc. I was touched by the responses. I've said it before, and I'll say it again. Wow, this loop is fantastic. Several things ministered to me, below. Thanks, ACFWers.
I saw Francine Rivers on TBN the other night and enjoyed hearing her story again. Great interview. She said she couldn't write for four years. Once she started writing again, she wrote REDEEMING LOVE! (Are you getting goose bumps like I am?)
1."God is not unjust; he will not forget your work and the love you have shown him as you have helped his people and continue to help them." Hebrews 6:10
2. So give yourself permission to grieve, and in grieving, pushing anything, making important decisions, is not wise.
3. All that said, remember that the battle you face isn't just an emotional or physical battle. It's rooted in the unseen. The enemy of your soul wants to prevent you from responding to the call of God. He certainly intends tosabotage or ambush any attempts to write for Him. It may be time tointentionally thwart the enemy's plans, to write to spite him (if that'seven theologically possible!), and to draw a hedge of prayer protection around yourself before even attempting to lay fingers to keyboard. Blank computer screen, be gone in the name of Jesus!
4. What Kristin B. said. She always says the right thing! On every subject.
5. Oh, and Laurie said to journal during this time.
Kristy Dykes, who's off to journal...
*Sigh,* that'll be some journal, now! Praise the Lord.
Posted by Margo Carmichael at 9:21 PM
One of the sweetest people you could ever meet, Kristy Dykes, has gone on to be with the Lord.
"I can only imagine" the wonderful time Kristy is having, free of pain, dancing with Jesus.
For the rest of us, it's not quite as wonderful.
I wish I could be at the service. A few years ago, I emailed Kristy about writing, and a few days later, was surprised to find a brown manila envelope in my mailbox. She had sent me three of her books, to "show, don't tell me," how she did it. I was so happy when I finally met her at a conference.
I pray that the wonderful Holy Spirit do His good work as Comforter for all who love her.
Click here Kristy Dykes and here "I Can Only Imagine"
Posted by Margo Carmichael at 9:00 AM
Thursday, July 17, 2008
Click here to see the most adorable videos of babies in the womb.
And of course, everyone remembers this little hand gripping the surgeon's finger.
Jesus loves the little children,
All the children of the world!
Red and yellow, black and white,
Whether in or out of sight!
Jesus loves the little children of the world!
Posted by Margo Carmichael at 1:37 PM
Saturday, July 05, 2008
Diann Hunt's little dog is failing and she blogged about knowing it was time to put him down. I told her I hurt with her. I've been there several times.
The good news is, I believe we'll see our pets in heaven. The Bible says "creation waits" for glory.
Romans 8:18-20 (NIV)
18 I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us. 19 The creation waits in eager expectation for the sons of God to be revealed. 20 For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope
I take that literally--all of God's creation.
My belief is that pets are like a class of angels. Why not? Look at the strange and wonderful critters in the Bible! Our pets don't sin, they just serve us and God by giving us love and give us pleasure, and then go to heaven. I'm convinced.
However, I was in Tokyo and saw only cars crossing that Rainbow Bridge, LOL
(Vets often send sympathy cards with a very touching poem about a rainbow bridge.)
I hated to give them up, but didn't want to keeping them suffering in their misery.
I figure that finally, *love lets go.*
Our little Shih Tsu was going blind and hard of hearing and when he cried out and his little back leg went stiff, we knew we had to let him go. So we took him to the vet and stayed with him while he left this world.
The assistant brought me scissors and I clipped the plume of his tail and brought it home. I don't even know where it is at the moment. I can't look at it.
He would walk around a corner of the hall and bump into one of those springy little doorstops and we would hear boiiiiing. Now, any time one of us does the same, I remember him.
Now, a few months later, we just got a new puppy. When Jocko died, we asked our other dog, "Do you miss Jocko?" The ears went up and it hurt my heart to know he did. I never asked him that again.
So we got another.
It's hard to think about it when we are losing one, but there are many other wonderful dogs out there waiting to bless us.
Posted by Margo Carmichael at 9:42 AM