God, Harry Potter and the Detestable Nations...

What do you think about Harry Potter? Leave a comment below, if you like.

Harry Potter is so cute and clever and popular, exercising magic powers and wizardry and casting spells and all. What a phenom.

What a Cinderella story for his author, from poor single mother to multi-millionaire. What author wouldn't love to accomplish that?

Well, I'm afraid I can think of One, who wrote:

Deuteronomy 18:9-14 When you enter the land the LORD your God is giving you, do not learn to imitate the detestable ways of the nations there.

Let no one be found among you who sacrifices his son or daughter in the fire,

who practices divination or sorcery, interprets omens, engages in witchcraft, or casts spells, or who is a medium or spiritist or who consults the dead.

Anyone who does these things is detestable to the LORD,

and because of these detestable practices the LORD your God will drive out those nations before you. You must be blameless before the LORD your God. The nations you will dispossess listen to those who practice sorcery or divination.

But as for you, the LORD your God has not permitted you to do so.

Another version calls these practices abominations.

Well, God, why not just say what you mean? LOL

That makes me think a lot of good-hearted people and sweet little children who enjoy these books and films are depriving themselves of more fun than these, and of even bigger blessings!

On the other hand, there's this precious promise:

John 14:15-23 If you love me, you will obey what I command. And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another Counselor to be with you forever— the Spirit of truth.

The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be[c] in you. ... Whoever has my commands and obeys them, he is the one who loves me.

He who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love him and show myself to him."
Then Judas (not Judas Iscariot) said, "But, Lord, why do you intend to show yourself to us and not to the world?"

Jesus replied, "If anyone loves me, he will obey my teaching. My Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him. He who does not love me will not obey my teaching.

These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me."

Wow. Boy, I know it's hard for me to obey God at times. I know my flaws and weaknesses and some of you know them, too.

But it's easy for me to choose to obey in this. If God hates something so much, I'm not about to turn to it even as merely (?) entertainment.

Or use it to teach my precious children to read! Read about things God hates as if they were fun and clever and maybe even desirable? The end does not justify the means.

His little children in bookstores dressed as the very things he detests? It must break His heart.

What about those who see symbolism of the Gospel in these books? I'm sorry, friends, I just think it's like offering strange fire on the altar.

Or digging through--detestable things--for the Pearl of Great Price.

One columnist suggests the books cause another problem, with its "bait-and switch" storytelling: Click to read Harry Potter and Anti-Christian Bigotry.

Another columinst shows that Harry does not know that an inscription was a Bible verse. The story ends with his parents taking back to the school of detestable things.

Young readers can conclude Harry does not seem to need to know God, the Bible, or Jesus Christ, since he chooses to use other powers not from God.



Meanwhile, even puny obedience leads to the fun of seeing God's hand in one's life.

Like that sculpture of Jonah in that church I visited for the first time last Easter. I had just that week said I needed a break and was running from writing like Jonah from ran Ninevah.

And there in the front of that church stood a six-foot-tall wood carving--of Jonah!

( Scroll down two articles for photos.)

And that wasn't even obedience!

But God is so good, He tracked me down and got my attention and blessed me anyway.

That is so much more entertaining to me than a little boy learning to practice the "detestable ways of the nations" ever could be--in the long run, anyway!

I'm sorry, I know not everyone will agree with me. My friends are certainly free to do as they feel led.

I serve a jealous God.

I also remember this, though, and am encouraged by the heart of our loving Father who just wants to bless us with only the best:

Deuteronomy 5:29 Oh, that their hearts would be inclined to fear me and keep all my commands always, so that it might go well with them and their children forever!

"These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me."

"As for you, the LORD your God has not permitted you to do so."

Somebody please tell Harry. He seems to worship a different God.

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Articles to read:
What is the occult?
The occult, what does the Bible say about it?
Relevant scriptures…
1 Thessalonians 5:21-22 Test everything. Hold on to the good. Avoid every kind of evil.James 1:27 keep oneself from being polluted by the world
3 John 1:11 do not imitate what is evil
Romans 12:9 abhor what is evil. Cling to what is good.
Deuteronomy 18:9-14 (do not learn to imitate detestable ways, including spiritists, sorcerers and witchcraft)
Ephesians 5:11-12 Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness /live as children of light
1 Timothy 4:1 (don't follow deceiving spirits and things taught by demons)
1 Corinthians 10:212 Corinthians 6:14-17 what fellowship can light have with darkness?Philippians 4:8 (think about pure, lovely, noble things)
1 Corinthians 11:1 follow the example of Christ
1 Corinthians 10:31 whatever you do, do everything for the glory of God
James 4:7-8 submit yourselves to God / resist the devil / purify your hearts
Ezekiel 44:23 …teach my people… to distinguish between the unclean and the clean.
Proverbs 22:6 train a child in the way he should go
Matthew 18:6 if anyone causes one of these little ones who believe in me to sin…
Hosea 4:6 My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge.
John 3:19-20 people love darkness instead of light
Romans 13:12 put aside the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of light.
Ephesians 6:11-18 take your stand against the devil's schemes.
1 John 5:19 keep yourselves from idols
2 Chronicles 7:14 If MY PEOPLE...will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways...I will forgive their sin and heal their land.

Anybody think our land needs a good healing???

http://www.christiananswers.net/q-eden/harrypotter.html

Memorial Day to 07/07/07--40 Day Fast after 40 Years in wilderness of rebellion--"Summer of Love" to Now

Can the US stand another 40 years like the last 40? From the 1967 "Summer of Love" until now has been 40 years of rebellion.

For some who don't know, forty years ago, school kids took turns reading from the Bible each morning and leading their homeroom in The Lord's Prayer and the Pledge of Allegiance. We actually recognized the existence and authority of God.

Stealing was rare. Pregnancies were rare.

The only weapons were spitballs and the worst crimes were talking in study hall. (I had to go out in the hall and count bricks in the wall for talking!)

There was a dress code and people didn't consider wearing dirty slogans on t-shirts or pants so low you can see the South Pole. They loved dressing nice to school church and believed their efforts showed respect for the Occasion.

Movies were a little suggestive at times, but fairly clean.

The only drug dealers wore dirty trench coats in back alleys.

Congress had their debates and differences, but there wasn't gridlock like we see now. And the press was more respectful of the office of president.

The president was not criticized for calling on his faith in God and prayer!

All was not perfect, but things were very different from now.

And if things continue another forty years in this moral downward spiral, I can't imagine what things will be like.

Our founders were Christians, not Deists, believing God gives us inalienable rights.
Who will give us our rights if we continue to kick God out of our institutions?

Who will enforce them? How???

But something exciting is going on: the most amazing project--a huge rally in Nashville for fasting and praying for forty days to come against the last forty years of rebellion:

In 1967, 100,000 young people, ages 15-25, flocked to San Francisco to experience the hippie movement. This mass convergence was sparked by the hit song in San Francisco called, "Wear a Flower in Your Hair." Once there, they experimented with LSD, pot, immorality, and Eastern mysticism, in what became known as the "Summer of Love."

When these newly recruited, "Flower Children," returned home at the end of summer, they brought with them new styles and ideas, flooding the cities of the U.S. and Europe with a message that opposed authority and scorned conservative morals.

This counterculture rebellion was fueled by music and art, and it rapidly shifted global culture.

A great divorce from God and His ways of kindness occurred in this turbulent time, and the effects of the, "Summer of Love," are still with us today.

The Church is obviously saturated with those effects.

So says this website.

More here.

This group is calling for Forty Days for Forty Years--forty days of fasting for revival against these last forty years of rebellion against God.

On the plus side, the article also states, "I have a 1971 Time Magazine article that states three times, that the Jesus Movement began in 1967, and that Jerusalem was taken back by Israel in 1967."

"After a 40-year judgment, could we be in a season in which a great spiritual awakening could occur in America, and the Jewish people would return to Yeshua?"

I'm not advocating joining this group, although I like what they're doing. That is up to you to read their website and decide for yourself. There will be rallies around the country if you're interested.

And how cool and powerful would it be if we would fast and agree in prayer with them!

Jesus said in Matthew 18:19 "Again* I say to you that if two of you agree on earth concerning anything that they ask, it will be done for them by My Father in heaven.

Who isn't sick over the things taught to our children in public schools? Who isn't disgusted over what passes for entertainment in our theaters and in our own television sets--things God called abominable in Deuteronomy 18:9, like the current popularity of sorcery and witchcraft. ("But Harry Potter makes them read"?!)

And Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, witchcraft, hatred, strife, seditions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told [you] in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.Galatians 5:19...

And that's just the kids' cartoons! Just kidding, sort of. That's *our* nightly entertainment, things God hates.

And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove [them]. For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret. Ephesians 5:11, 12

Unfortunately, that's also our morning news.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, self-control. Galatians 5:23

Who wouldn't love to see the pendulum take a huge swing back to God's righteousness in the next year? Wouldn't it be wonderful if once again our children could have innocent childhoods?

Whatsoever things are pure, lovely, think on these things--Philippians 4:8 But innocent young children go to websites for school research and are assailed with porn.

God promises, If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and forgive their sin and heal their land. II Chronicles 7:14

Take a look at the website, read their thoughts. Two good books: Shaping History Through Prayer and Fasting, and God's Chosen Fast tell of the effectiveness of fasting. I would add, check with your doctor.

And don't go off caffeine cold turkey, but taper off over a week or so, or you'll get a raging headache. Different kinds of fasts can include from just giving up chocolate (gasp!) to just eating plain vegetables (Daniel fast) but do not go off of all food for forty days and

***never limit fluids.***

This 40 Days for 40 Years campaign will culminate on 7/7/07. May that date go down in history as a great spiritual turning point in the earth.

Let's join our hearts to theirs.

And bow our knees.

And fast. And pray.

Lord, we were once like a city on a hill for You. We were conceived with a desire for freedom to serve you. Lord, show us our sin. Help us to turn away from it. And please, Lord, in the mighty name of Jesus, heal our land and restore our joy in you--and your joy in us! Amen.

"I've just seen..." Jonah?!

I've just seen Jesus, I tell you, He's alive!
I've just seen Jesus, our precious Lord alive!

So goes the wonderful Easter song.

Just before Easter, I told friends, "I took a break and ran from writing like Jonah from Ninevah."

That was when I got into the play I've described several articles below. It was so much fun and got me out with wonderful people. A real blessing.

The play ended the week before Easter.

And Easter week, I visited a nearby church I've passed a thousand times. My friend had mentioned their Maundy Thursday service and I decided to go.

Two tall wood carvings stand in the lobby, very stylistic and modern.

One is Moses, representing the Law. The Old Testament.

I looked at the other figure, expecting to see Jesus. The New Testament.

Then I noticed a vine.

And a large gourd.

And I saw Jonah!

I stood there amazed. I'm not sure why they have Jonah instead of Jesus.

But there he was.

God had led me there, where I'd never been before.

He reminded me of my comparison.

And told me it was time to get back to my writing!

As I had also told my friends, I see His hand so much, encouraging my writing. He is so faithful.

So, I'm writing, I'm writing! And lookin' out for a big fish....

An Easter visit from author Tricia Goyer

Before we hear about Tricia Goyer's latest book,
here's a clever thought from her about Easter.

Every year I help my husband put on an Easter
program for our children's church. And no matter
what part of the Easter story we share, we always
use the same slogan:
No Bunny Loves Me Like Jesus.

This year as you awaken with joy over the resurrection remember:
No Bunny Loves Me Like Jesus.

As you dress in your Easter finest remember:
No Bunny Loves Me Like Jesus.

As you see the delight in your children's eyes as they open their Easter treasures, tell them:
No Bunny Loves You Like Jesus.

And as we consider Christ's death in order that we might have life, let's celebrate:
No Bunny Loves Us Like Jesus!

Love it!

Now, Tricia tells us about the stories behind A Valley of Betrayal.

A few years ago when I was researching for my fourth World War II novel, Arms of Deliverance, I came across a unique autobiography. One B-17 crewmember I read about claimed to make it out of German-occupied Belgium after a plane crash due, in part, to his skills he picked up as a veteran of The Spanish Civil War. Reading that bit of information, I had to scratch my head. First of all, I had never heard of the war. And second, what was an American doing fighting in Spain in the late 1930s? Before I knew it, I uncovered a fascinating time in history—one that I soon discovered many people know little about. This is what I learned:

Nazi tanks rolled across the hillsides and German bombers roared overhead, dropping bombs on helpless citizens. Italian troops fought alongside the Germans, and their opponents attempted to stand strong—Americans, British, Irishmen, and others—in unison with other volunteers from many countries. And their battleground? The beautiful Spanish countryside.

From July 17, 1936-April 1, 1939, well before America was involved in World War II, another battle was fought on the hillsides of Spain. On one side were the Spanish Republicans, joined by the Soviet Union and The International Brigade—men and women from all over the world who have volunteered to fight Fascism. Opposing them, Franco and his Fascist military leaders, supported with troops, machinery, and weapons from Hitler and Mussolini. The Spanish Civil War, considered the “training ground” for the war to come, boasted of thousands of American volunteers who joined to fight on the Republican side, half of which never returned home.

Unlike World War II, there is no clear line between white and black, good and evil. Both sides committed atrocities. Both sides had deep convictions they felt worth fighting and dying for.

Loyalists—also know as the Republicans were aided by the Soviet Union, the Communist movement, and the International Brigades. If not for the weapons and volunteers from these sources their fight would have ended in weeks rather than years. While many men fought side by side, their political views included that of liberal democracy, communism and socialism. The Catholic Basque Country also sided with the Republic, mainly because it sought independence from the central government and was promised this by Republican leaders in Madrid.

Nationalists—or Francoists were aided mainly by Germany and Italy. The Nationalist opposed an independent Basque state. Their main supporters were those who believed in a monarchist state and fascist interests. The Nationalist wished for Spain to continue on as it had for years, with rich landowners, the military, and the church running the country. Most of the Roman Catholic clergy supported the Nationalists, except those in the Basque region.

During the Spanish Civil war, terror tactics against civilians were common. And while history books discuss the estimated one million people who lost their lives during the conflict, we must not forget that each of those who fought, who died, had their own tales. From visitors to Spain who found themselves caught in the conflict, to the communist supporters, Basque priests, and Nazi airmen . . . each saw this war in a different light.

These are the stories behind A Valley of Betrayal.
Tricia Goyer, October 2006

If you like, you can read the first chapter here.

And remember, No bunny loves you like Jesus!

Titus 3:4-8 But when the kindness of God our Savior and His love for mankind appeared, He saved us, not on the basis of deeds which we have done in righteousness, but according to His mercy, by the washing of regeneration and renewing by the Holy Spirit, whom He poured out upon us richly through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that being justified by His grace we would be made heirs according to the hope of eternal life. This is a trustworthy statement....

Enchanted April: To those who appreciate wisteria and sonshine

To Those who Appreciate Wistaria and Sunshine.
Small mediaeval Italian Castle on the shores
of the Mediterranean to be Let Furnished for
the month of April. Necessary servants remain.
Z, Box 1000, The Times.

I am happily exhausted.

"Enchanted April" is over, my "play" mates scattered.

*Sigh*

But, like the characters who bonded in the lovely ambience at San Salvatore, we're already planning to get together, to see the play when another group performs it in another venue, and one member has invited us all to her lake house later this spring.

This was all an amazing blessing to me:

One of my favorite stories comes along and I get a part just the right size for me at my level of experience, plus, speaking a language I've always loved,and just having fun when I needed a break from nursemaiding dh after his foot surgery.

I see the Lord having made sure I read an article a few years ago about this ten-year-old movie I had missed, "Enchanted April." It sounded delightful.

Some weeks later, Blockbuster had a huge sale of old movies and there it was. I bought it and loved it.

Recently, although I usually read the news online, I picked up a local paper and saw the ad for the audition, and amazingly, got a part. In Italian.

Then, sweet, funny, talented people were chosen to be at San Salvatore with me in cast and crew.

All this falling into place just as when the main character, Lotty, went to London on a different day than usual, and read the ad in the paper at her woman's club--when
Rose, who Lotty wanted as her future traveling companion, happened to be there as well....

In the last scene, the cast crossed the stage slowly in couples or alone as they looked at San Salvatore one last time. I (Costanza, a "necessary servant") stood to the side waving good-bye, and the last time, my tears were real. :' ) I would miss these characters and the awesome people who played them in this imaginary place. And the awesome crew that kept things moving along.

After the closing matinee, we stayed behind to take down the set and clean up the Green Room. Then I went home to meet a daughter and her husband and child, who took us out to dinner.

I also found a surprise from them, a pot with a tall budding wisteria standing in the afternoon sunshine.

My husband planted it for me today.

This was a wonderful experience beyond my comfort zone, but with much more fun than fear. God is so awesome and so good and I look forward to throwing my arms around His neck one day!

If you like, read the online book.

April in Italy!

When I saw that one of my favorite movies was now also a play nominated for the Tony Award and about to be produced in my area, I auditioned and, amazingly, got a small part

My friend, author Mary DeMuth, has a to-do list for writers and number four is get away from your work and do something else for a while.

Well, I've done just that, for the sake of a change of pace and heightened creativity--and with other people.

Writing is such solitary work and full of long waits. Acting gets you into a different world, working with others face to face, and garners instant feedback: It works or it doesn't and the director is quick to tell you which.

"Enchanted April" is light dramedy in the Merchant Ivory tradition (think Room With a View, Howard's End,) based on the 1922 book by Elizabeth Von Arnim. It also became a lovely movie seventy years later.

It received great reviews although that one left out the wonderful Alfred Molina.

The play has recently become available, so it's now showing or in production in many areas this spring.

Two desperate London housewives in 1922 rent a small castle in Italy for a brief escape from the rain--and their less than stellar marriages. They find two more women--one difficult, one exotic--to share expenses and off they all go--into more rain. But they waken to the enchanted beauty of San Salvatore and some lovely surprises....

The movie shows four servants at the castle, but the play has only one, Costanza. That's me. And my lines are all in Italian, except breakfast and marvelous. I had studied a little Italian, plus French and Spanish in school, plus a little Japanese and a little Hebrew. I love languages. So the translations make sense to me and it was not too hard to learn. Easier than learning the sequence of my seven entrance cues in one scene.

San Salvatore is represented by Castello Brown in Portofino, Italy (now also on my to-do list) and in our lovely theater set surrounded by blue water and terrace furniture to match. So a little corner of London plus San Salvatore make up our alternate reality for now.

The cast and crew are talented and share a sweet chemistry and it's all just so much fun. Just like playing, but all grown-up. (Relatively speaking!) Like, "Hey, watch this, let's pretend," and off we go.

As for writing, one of the character/husbands is an author of novels another character calls "salacious." His own wife, Rose, says, "One shouldn't write novels God wouldn't want to read."

LOL I wouldn't even recommend critiquing and helping others write novels God wouldn't want to read.

Whether or not I ever audition again, time will tell.

And I'll definitely write again.

But right now,
I'm being blessed by this play. God is so good, He does give us the desires of our hearts! It isn't often a part comes along for a woman "of a certain age,"
let alone a clean, uplifting story you could bring older children to, let alone a favorite story in a lovely setting.

"All'Italia--" "Marvelous!"

Very interesting--Israeli paper Haaretz: Sanhedrin just bought sheep for sacrifice....Moving right along....

If you've ever read Jesus' reference to the book of the prophet Daniel in the Bible, you may recognize the significance of this announcement in one of Israel's newspapers:


Present-day Sanhedrin court seeks to revive ancient Temple rituals

The present-day Sanhedrin Court decided Tuesday to purchase a herd of sheep for ritual sacrifice at the site of the Temple on the eve of Passover, conditions on the Temple Mount permitting.The modern Sanhedrin was established several years ago and is headed by Rabbi Adin Steinsaltz. It claims to be renewing the ancient Jewish high court, which existed until roughly 1600 years ago, and meets once a week.Professor Hillel Weiss, a member of the Sanhedrin, told Haaretz on Tuesday that the action, even if merely symbolic, is designed to demonstrate in a way that is obvious to all that the expectation of Temple rituals will resume is real, and not just talk. ... More here.

The usual Easter attack on Christianity

Once a year on the tv calendar, Easter shows up as time to refute Christianity. The producer of "Titanic," James Cameron, has produced a show claiming to feature the bones of Jesus Christ.

Professor Amos Kloner, Jerusalem, in photo, points out that these alleged bones of Jesus of Nazareth and family were found far from Nazareth. That Mary and Joseph could not have afforded a middle class tomb like this. And the names, Jesus, Mary and Joseph were as common as the name Mary was in the last generation today.

Besides, as is pointed out in an excellent booklet from Intervarsity Press, "Have You Considered Him?" , which I recommend ordering in quantity to give away, the followers of Jesus Christ were willing to suffer torture and death because they would not stop saying they saw Him alive. After the resurrection.

Cameron claims he is not trying to "sink" Christianity, that Jesus' spirit could have been seen resurrecting, but that His body could have been buried.

Not if we believe the Word of God.

For more refuting these titanic claims, click here and here.

Awesome Books, Awesome Blog

Today, I'm directing traffic to the blog of Bodie and Brock Thoene.

Their incomparable fiction reflects all different stages of Christian history.

And today, their commentary on today's church is so timely, urgent and important, I will let it speak for itself. Please click here and read it carefully and prayerfully.

Divorces Among my Friends

I feel sad about several divorces among my friends.

I know we all see divorces in our social circles and ache for those involved.



When I was fifteen and an older boy wanted to get married, my mother told me, "Marriage is not all moonlight and roses, it is just life. And it can be good and bad. It is life, not a cute Doris Day movie. So don't rush into it."

And I cooled my jets and did not get married until I graduated from college. To someone else, when we were both older and wiser. And we're still married, for better or for worse. And there's plenty of both, LOL

I would love to be able to share with these discouraged, divorcing couples some guidelines from the Lord--guidelines for a happy, healthy family that I don't always find easy to follow, myself, that's for sure. But they make a difference:

Eph 5:21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

Again, that's: Eph 5:21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

Specifically, here's how:

Eph 5:22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord.

Eph 5:25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved he church and gave himself up for her

Eph 5:28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their
wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves
himself.



Eph 5:33 However, each one of you also must love his wife
as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

Read these in context right here for yourself, if you wish.

Then, this from Colossians:

Col 3:18 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

Col 3:19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.

Col 3:20 Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord.

Col 3:21 Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged.

The Jews have a proverb, "Do not make your wife cry for God counts her every tear."

Wow. They base this on Psalm 56:8 "Thou tellest my wanderings: put thou my tears into thy bottle: [are they] not in thy book?"

So God does not ignore it when we make each other cry. Tears and fighting in the home actually grieve the Holy Spirit, God within us. Here, Paul writes to the Ephesians:

Eph 4:30 And grieve not the holy Spirit of God, whereby ye are sealed unto the day of redemption.

Eph 4:31 Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice:

Eph 4:32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.

I love that last verse, and the word, tenderhearted.

I love these ancient writers, these men so madly in love with God. How they desired the world to love Him and each other!

In some relationships, one's kindness and consideration--and tenderheartedness--may not often be reciprocated. That's when we can do good to the other just for the sake of our love of God. He promises He will reciprocate!

Col 3:23 And whatsoever ye do, do [it] heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;

Col 3:24 Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ.

Col 3:25 But he that doeth wrong shall receive for the wrong which he hath done: and there is no respect of persons.

I feel responsible to add that forgiveness does not mean staying in harm's way, where there is abuse. And to point out, Paul said, "But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace."

I'll stop with this prayer for my family and all families of the whole world for 2007:

Eph 3:14 For this reason I kneel before the Father,

Eph 3:15 from whom his whole family* in heaven and on earth derives its name.

Eph 3:16 I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being,

Eph 3:17 so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love,

Eph 3:18 may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, [Description of the cross!]

Eph 3:19 and to know this love that surpasses knowledge–that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.

Eph 3:20 Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us,

Eph 3:21 to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.

Relationships are so complicated. Sometimes I have to wonder if some people have unrealistic expectations of marriage. Good relationships take time and effort. And the chemical PEA which has to do with attraction and which runs out after about two years. By then, other elements of a relationship should ideally be firmly in place.

This is not to make anyone feel guilty.

This is just to make them stop and reconsider.

God still loves and uses divorced people. But God hates divorce because it hurts people. Maybe these scriptures will help some people renew the love in their marriages.

And accepting counseling from an objective outsider demonstrates humility and strength and maturity, too.

For those who tried even that and still gave up, I ache with you.